If your crush is texting you every day, you can match their texting speed to show them that you’re as interested as them.
Before you start texting your crush, think about the overall goal you want to achieve from the conversation and be direct. Steer clear of any questions about why they aren’t texting you or how they picture your future together since that could seem pushy. You could even send voice messages if you want to send a playful tease to your crush without getting on a phone call. Add the word “random” into your message, like “Hey, random thought!” This gives you permission to bring up pretty much anything in your conversation. You could also send over a song that you like, or text your crush a funny meme.
Your crush will think you have a busy and interesting life when you don’t reply right away, which will make them more interested to talk to you.
Rather than thinking about your crush messaging you back, think about how happy they must have been reading your message.
Try not to assume the worst when you don’t get a reply right away. Your crush could just be preoccupied and not able to text back at the moment.
“Hey again 😊 hope you’re doing well! How’ve you been?” “Just popping in to say hi! Anything exciting going on?” “Hi 🙂 you wouldn’t believe the day I just had haha. How are you doing?”
If you can, hop on a video call or meet up face-to-face. You’ll get a better read on how they’re feeling if you can see their face when you’re chatting.
It may also be a sign that your crush isn’t interested if they only send one-word replies to your messages.
